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Understand the physiological structure of a female partner
First of all, before engaging in oral sex, it is essential for everyone to learn and understand the female partner’s physiological structure. Many people lack sufficient knowledge about female orgasmic methods and erogenous zones. It is common for individuals to use their tongues as if they were a penis, simulating penetrative intercourse, or randomly lick the entire genital area, which doesn’t bring much pleasure to the female partner.
It is important to understand that the most sensitive area for women is the clitoris. Therefore, the essence of oral sex is not to mimic penetrative intercourse with the tongue but to properly caress and stimulate the clitoris.
However, although the clitoris plays a central role in oral sex, it is not the only sensitive area on the female body, and one should not solely focus on it during oral sex. Understanding the female partner’s erogenous zones and thoroughly caressing them before engaging in the main act is a crucial aspect of oral sex.
Pay attention to hygiene
It is essential to pay attention to personal hygiene during all oral sex activities. The female genital area is susceptible to bacterial infections, so before engaging in oral sex, it is important for the partner to remember to maintain good personal hygiene, especially cleaning the mouth, face, and hands.
Furthermore, for the female partner, it is necessary to thoroughly clean her body, particularly the genital area. However, it is important to avoid excessive cleaning and remember not to overdo it.
Choose a labor-saving position
During oral sex, it is advisable to choose positions that are relatively effortless and do not strain the bodies of both partners too much. On one hand, oral sex is meant to be a relaxed and pleasurable activity, not a muscle-building exercise. There is no need to opt for overly challenging movements that keep the muscles in a constant tense state.
On the other hand, due to the difference between female and male orgasms, women can have multiple orgasms without a refractory period. This means that oral sex sessions may last longer, necessitating the selection of sustainable positions to engage in.
Foreplay is very important
Foreplay is an essential part of a satisfying sexual experience. It helps us eliminate tension and anxiety, relax our minds, awaken desire, stimulate glandular secretions, and enhance the quality of our sexual encounters.
Therefore, good foreplay involves creating a pleasant and relaxing atmosphere of intimacy that gradually opens up our bodies through the satisfaction of our five senses. While sexy attire and appealing fragrances can contribute to this atmosphere, relying solely on these external factors is far from sufficient. The most crucial element is to engage in gentle caresses and sweet words of affection with each other.
Be gentle in your movements
When a female partner’s clitoris becomes enlarged, it usually indicates that she is becoming sexually aroused. However, it is best not to directly flip back the hood and start licking or sucking, as the clitoris is very delicate and sensitive.
At this point, it is better to lick the clitoris up and down through the hood, using the entire surface of the tongue. The licking technique can go beyond simply circling around and can even involve playful activities like guessing letters, adding a bit of fun and excitement.
While licking, please try to avoid using teeth and control the pressure to avoid causing discomfort or pain to the female partner.
When the female partner is nearing orgasm, you can suck on the clitoris, accelerating the stimulation to help her reach climax.
During sucking, the movements should still be gentle. Start by gently holding it in your mouth, then gradually increase the rhythm of the tongue’s up-and-down poking and licking on the clitoris until the female partner reaches orgasm.
Communication, Understanding, and Respect
All interactions within relationships should be based on the principles of equality and respect, and oral sex is no exception. Female sexual pleasure can be like a mountain range, extending for a long time. Before engaging in oral sex, it is essential to communicate with your female partner and understand whether she desires prolonged or brief moments of climax.
In any case, it is crucial to genuinely listen to each other’s desires and understand what your partner wants. Then, within your own comfort boundaries, strive to fulfill your partner’s desires to the best of your ability.
